To Jump or not to Jump: Our Bungee Experience

From our Travel Notes: September 2017

“5… 4… 3… 2… 1… Go, Go, GO!!” And we jumped!

Bungee jump was something we wanted to experience – after all, it is one of those once-in-a-lifetime moments! And our chance came in 2017 on a family trip to Hong Kong & Macau. AJ Hackett, a New Zealand based and globally recognized company, runs an experience center at the Macau Tower and offers adventure thrills like Skywalk and Bungee Jump.

After reading the details, we were all in for the Skywalk – a walk on an open platform on the top of the tower – and made our booking. But the question that beckoned was – do we do the Bungee jump or not?

For Sohil, an adventure junkie, it was on the bucket list and a matter of ‘when rather than if’.

For Itisha, a reluctant enthusiast, it was also on the bucket list but a matter of ‘someday, sometime in the near future, maybe’.

A month before the trip, Iti developed cold feet and decided that she was not doing the jump, at least not this time. Soh, a bit disappointed at first, knew not to push her but decided that he was definitely doing the jump. He was also confident that he will be able to convince Iti for it, even if it came down to the very last minute.

Months to weeks, weeks to days, we were finally on the trip but had actually still not booked! On reaching the Macau Tower, we were undecided and went for our Skywalk. That experience was actually the clincher for Iti.

The Skywalk platform is next to the Bungee platform and gave us an up-close & personal view of a couple of jumps that happened. We could see that each jump was managed very professionally by the staff which had a calming effect. And people from all walks of life were taking part in the jump which gave the confidence (“If they can do it, so can I” said Iti).

As soon as we finished our Skywalk, the organizers asked ‘Do you want to go for a bungee jump now?’, and Iti finally said ‘Yes!’

the moment of bungee jump
the moment we jumped!

Since the experience was very different for both of us (as will be obvious from the videos) we are breaking down the next part from our individual lens. Iti decided to go first, since she knew that if Soh was not behind her, she might back out.


Before our trip, my mind was constantly shuffling between ‘I should not miss this opportunity’ and ‘Is it even worth the effort?’ I was almost convinced that I will have some kind of a mid-air panic attack the minute I jump.

As I do before taking any major decision, I went through multiple articles, blog posts, videos, Quora threads, with lists of what and what-not, and had conversations with friends who had done it to try to find the answer to a single question – ‘How does it feel to Bungee Jump?’

Although I was still unsure, I did arrive at two golden-rules that helped me before the jump –

1. Don’t Overthink – If you think too much of the why, how, etc., then chances are you will probably decide not to jump at all. Just go with the flow, listen to the instructions, and enjoy the moment.

2. Matter of few seconds – The frightening part, the free fall, lasts for only about 7-10 seconds. After that, as the rope gently tugs you back, your speed reduces significantly and you can just enjoy the experience & take in the views. Those scary few seconds will be over before you know it.

So with these rules, I got geared up and was ready to jump from the building. The staff was fun & in a jovial mood, helping to calm down the nerves. Some tiny part of me wanted to run away at that moment itself & I had to keep on reminding myself to ‘Be Cool’ (or at least pretend to).

My heart skipped a beat when I walked to the edge of the platform. I was taking baby steps because the rope and the harness made it difficult to walk. Suddenly the countdown started, and once the instructor says ‘Go’, the only thing you do is GO!

As soon as the free-fall started, I went through a range of emotions from; ‘Why did I sign up for this?’, ‘This is way scarier than what I read on the internet’, to finally, ‘Am I in one of those dreams where you keep falling in a bottomless pit?’ (Except that gravity is funny, and your speed increases, making it even scarier). But true to what I had read, within 8-10 seconds, I felt the tug of the rope and the harness pull me back up and into the pendulum movement.

For the next couple of minutes, I was on cloud nine! I was hanging mid-air, and watching the world upside down (I was given instructions on how to pull a part of the rope so that I could straighten up, but I forgot!). So there I was, inverted, watching the Macau city and being extremely proud of myself that I jumped from the 63rd floor of a building.


It was a thrilling, though short-lived, experience and a big tick off the bucket list! (The end…)

(Addendum on Iti’s ‘request’)

As soon as I knew of the possibility of doing a bungee jump on the trip, I was excited, and looking forward to it.

But I had a niggling concern – how will it affect my back? The fall itself is straight down, but there is supposed to be a tug that pulls on the harness and puts the jumper into the pendulum movement. I have had some issues with my back over the years and was a bit tentative about the impact of this jerky motion. I did read some posts about it, and what I gathered was that the gear is pivoted around the legs and not the back. Further research, specific to AJ Hackett, also proved useful in providing enough information and I was excited once again.

On the day, after the Skywalk and before the jump itself, I wasn’t giving it much thought other than figuring out the details (which took 5 minutes) and calming Iti (which took a lot, a lot longer). All her research was going through her mind and my main aim was to keep reminding her of her own rules! When she finally jumped and I heard her scream, I knew she would have closed her eyes the entire time.

And soon it was my turn. I was enjoying the entire process of gearing up though not so much of being told to pose for multiple photos before the jump itself. Later we realized that the mini-photo session was more for record-keeping on their safety standards and process (which were extensive).

For the longest time and even during the gearing process, the only thought I had was about how I am going to jump – backward, somersault, sideways. But the organizers quickly poured water over that by refusing any of those actions and I was told (thrice) – ‘don’t jump, just fall naturally’. That was a bummer; bungee fall does not sound as exciting as bungee jump!

But whatever be it called, those 9 seconds are mind-blowing, and the rest of the time hanging to the harness and watching over the scenery are relaxing.

After our jump, we waited another hour waiting for our photos and videos to process, all the while reliving those moments. It was difficult to discuss the euphoria, but we did our best to put words to it for our family.

The entire time, the staff at AJ Hackett was really cordial and professional and were always smiling, yet maintaining the safety standards which definitely added to the positive experience. And true to the research and the information, it did not impact Soh’s back one bit.

We were also a bit surprised that on-the-spot bungee slots were available without any wait. This was in September 2017, so not sure if things have changed since then.

With a big smile on both our faces, along with branded memento t-shirts and pen-drives (with our memories), and we were off to explore the rest of Macau.

Our Happy Place – the endearing Palolem beach in South Goa

Goa, a state in western India, is a special place for a lot of people – right from the parties in popular clubs to meditation by the sea-side; it has a bit of soul for everyone. Going to Goa is not a question of if or when, but a question of where. For us, the place stands for the array of beaches, each with its own unique flavour. There is always this debate whenever we travel there – where should we spend time – North or South Goa?

Sohil loves the south – the laid back vibe, fewer crowds around and a lot of time to stare into the horizon.

Itisha loves the north – in her words, “What is the fun if there are no people around?” Nothing comes close to being walking distance to all party-ready people at Baga beach, parasailing near Candolim & spending an entire evening in some of the brilliant cafes.

Despite these differences in our taste, there is one beach we absolutely love, and that is Palolem beach in South Goa! (+1 for Soh).

palolem beach couple photo
Palolem – It’s our happy place

Soh, who visited it the first time in 2005, makes it a point to go there every time he is in Goa (which numbers to 12!). Iti, while uninterested at first to the glowing reviews (mostly from Soh), fell in love with the place on her first trip there.

A lot has been written about Palolem in recent years, and while the beach is not as pristine or devoid of crowds as it was earlier, it is still special because it retains its charm with the right fusion of everything we love.

Palolem beach is a crescent-shaped stretch of white sand, sprinkled with towering palm trees and colourful wooden shacks, on a bay in the area of Cancona. While it’s off the main road, it is worth the effort, even if you are staying in north Goa.

Here is what gives it a special place in our heart –

1. The Water (at peace)

There is certain calm between the sand and the water.

The beach is quite shallow to start with and the waves are not harsh which makes it a perfect place to jump right into the water. Considering Iti’s aversion to risk and Soh’s disregard to safety, this provides a perfect blend of space to enjoy – it is as easy to come out of the water as it is to go deeper. It is also one of the cleanest beaches in Goa and a brilliant setup for watching the sunset.

enjoying calm waters

2. The Food (with the setting)

Give us good food and a drink (cold coffee for Itisha, beer for Sohil) on the sand, next to the waves and we are sorted for life.

With the tourist influx, Goa’s beaches are well stocked when it comes to food and the different cuisines. And Palolem is right there with a lip-smacking fare of varieties we love. The food is not over-the-top, neither underwhelming, but just the right blend of heartiness which goes with the combination of sun, sand and sea.

But more than the food itself, it is the setting itself which leaves a distinctive taste. Set your base up at one of the many beachside cafés, and alternate between a dip in the water and a bite of the food. There are also hidden gems not on the beach and on the inner road, which provide a hearty meal for a local and homely experience.

the setting for the cafes

3. The Activities (an unmatched experience)

While many times, our constant disagreement is between going for long walks on the beach (Iti) or swim in the sea (Soh); there are a few more distinct activities that Palolem has to offer. And where else can you get a chance to go kayaking with the dolphins!

Palolem offers a decent collection of excursions at the beach for everyone’s liking. You can take a boat trip to watch dolphins, ride to monkey island or along the surrounding shores, hire a kayak (single or double) and go into the sea yourself or just laze around in the water. The calm sea (except during monsoon) is inviting at all hours of the day.

Watching dolphins gliding in the water is a sight in itself, but being able to go close to them while on a kayak is a different experience altogether. Soh can attest to that, as he recalls at every given opportunity.

kayaking in the sea

4. The Stay (that is impressive)

What is the point of going on a beach holiday when you are not staying on the beach?

And not a fancy beach ‘property’ that takes away all your money, but an equally impressive beach shack that costs a fifth. The entire stretch of the beach is lined up with beach rooms (sea and semi-sea views) which are more than functional – wooden structures with hot water, mosquito nets and the sound of sea waves.

There are options next to the road, as well as to the beach, geared for short and long stays, standing out with their colourful facades, yet complementing the natural vibe of the place.

option for stay

5. The Exploration (so simple)

South Goa is full of pristine and white sand beaches, as well as lush greenery.

It is easy to rent a Scooty at the beach and roam around the green fields or explore other low inhabited beaches. And even if you don’t know how to ride, locals are more than happy to give a lift.

We suggest Agonda is another good beach to visit for a walk or to watch the sunset.

exploring the area

6. The Party (without the noise)

Did we not say it has something for everyone?

Palolem has a unique party scene. There are now places in the vicinity which have opened up for partying.

And the one most famous is the one Soh has gone to is the Saturday open-air headphone party. You are provided with a headphone with four different channels, which have four different DJs! And mixed with fog machines, laser lights, a brew of performances from fire dancers to aerobatics and mind-bending projects; it’s a party that is not loud!

We have been to Goa many times; with family, with friends, and just the two of us.

North is famous for its party clubs, South is famous for its hippy culture. But North or South, it is also an important decision because of the distance and travel time between the primary beaches of North & South (two hours on a bike late at night in absolute darkness around is not something we are looking at repeating).

And we keep going back, exploring new places and beaches in Goa, but we can be found at Palolem most times.

It’s our happy place.

Have you been to the Palolem beach in Goa?

Where do you prefer to go in Goa – North or South?

Where is your happy place?

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Cruising in the Emerald Water of Bai Tu Long Bay, Vietnam


From our Travel Notes: December 2018

The story goes that a few centuries ago, dragons descended in the northern part of Vietnam and spewed fire to protect the sea from nasty invaders! They spit out jewels which scattered around the sea and turned into small islands & tiny karsts – forming what is now known as Halong Bay & Bai Tu Long Bay.

And while we did not get see any dragons on our sojourn (a bit disappointing for us GOT-fans), we had an absolutely lovely time cruising through Bai Tu Long Bay – a gorgeous segment of the Gulf on Tonkin, known for its emerald waters and towering limestone islands that are covered with rain-forests.

Ha Long bay is quite popular amongst visitors from all over the world, who either book a junk boat, or take a cruise to explore fishing villages, the caves, & rock formations within this bay.

For us, we knew it had to be part of our South-East Asia itinerary, but then came the tough part – planning it out. Do we go and come back the same day (Sohil’s initial choice) or stay in the sea cruising for a couple of nights (Itisha’s initial choice)? Which company and type of boat should we choose? Which activities to include (Iti had a long list) and which to skip (Soh had to shortlist)? Is it really worth the cost?

The Internet can answer a lot of question but in the case of Halong Bay, we realised there are unlimited options available and not really a perfect solution. There are literally hundreds of boats & cruises that operate in the area and even after filtering out based on our budget & duration, there was not only one, but at least 10 different cruises that popped up (Not ideal to Iti’s liking, who wants to take the ‘best decision’, always).

We did some time-consuming & a little confusing research almost a month before our cruise dates, and finally made these choices –

  • We decided to go with a mini-luxury cruise (with our own cabin and balcony) for our journey. Cruises are not exactly an economic affair, but we realized that the cost of the cruise in Ha Long is much lesser than a cruise we might take in other parts of the world. And we had not taken an over-night cruise ever before, so the novelty factor also came into play.
  • The duration option that made the most sense was the 2-day & 1-night. Our base was in Vietnam was in Hanoi, which is 4 hours from Halong. It would have been rushed to our liking if we had travelled back on the same day; the additional day also gave us time to soak in the views of the place at a different time of day. (There was also a 3-day & 2-night option available, but that was too long and would have hampered with rest of our Vietnam travel plan).
  • After some back & forth on reviews on Trip Advisor, blog posts and aggregator websites, we decided to go with Signature Cruises (we shortlisted around three cruise ships but Iti’s favourite travel YouTube vloggers, Kara & Nate, had taken this one, and that gave it the winning edge!)
  • The good part about the Vietnam cruises is that the price included everything – to-and-fro Hanoi to Halong (at additional cost), all meals, activities, and stay which meant that once we made our booking – all we had to do was sit back & relax.
  • The Signature Cruise ship actually navigates in Bai Tu Long Bay, which is quieter and less-touristy compared to Halong Bay
  • Also, all cruises also have a standardized itinerary that includes everything from (from hiking to kayaking), so there isn’t a need to plan anything separately.
  • We booked directly through Signature Cruise’s travel desk, who gave us good information and (more importantly for Soh) a better deal.

Journey into the Bay
Day 1

8:00 AM

We started our day with a serving of Vietnam’s popular Bahn-Mi sandwiches for breakfast at our homestay in Hanoi Old quarters. Our pickup was at 8 in the morning and we kept our remaining luggage in the homestay itself (why carry Iti’s 25 dresses when 5 are enough for 2 days and 1 night). We were pretty groggy (not exactly morning people!) and mostly slept during the 4-hour journey in a comfortable coach on a calm highway. Once we reached Halong, we signed up a few forms and waited at the dock with our co-passengers for about an hour, finally to board a small boat, which took us to our main cruise ship.

1:00 PM

Our cruise was a luxurious white vessel, with a colonial-style wooden flooring and included a restaurant, an open deck with sun loungers and about 10-12 cabins for the passengers. It came with its own grandiose & sophistication and yet the super cheerful crew and a limited number of passengers (around 25 from what we remember) gave the entire place a cosy & intimate vibe.

We started sailing immediately and were directly taken to the ship’s restaurant for lunch and given our two-day written itinerary with reporting times and activities. Most of the times, we enjoy DIY travelling and creating our own unique (weird!) travel agenda.But there is also a charm in leaving the planning to someone else and going by a set plan – the only thing we had to do was turn up and enjoy. A welcome break compared to rest of our South-East Asia schedule.

The lunch was a bit tricky. There were multiple options in the buffet and Sohil was more than happy to start gorging on the delicacies, but for Itisha, the vegetarian food was limited. (There was a dish of ‘Tofu and Veggies’, which, Iti will not say bad, but to be polite, so very far off from the Indian palette, that she has now stopped eating Tofu completely. She was a little upset, for the lunch, and the thought of not having food to enjoy for the rest of the trip. And that showed on her face because soon the Captain was at her side asking for her preference and assured that from next meal onward the food will be prepared with the exact ingredients and style that she asks it to be made).

2:00 PM

We checked-in to our cabin which was no less than a suite of a hotel – Well-spaced area with a wooden flooring, grand double bed, a wide dressing and a surprisingly luxurious bathroom that had a remote-controlled loo and a Jacuzzi with a sea-view! The best part, however, was the attached balcony where we could lounge on chairs and enjoy the breeze coming through limestone island over the pristine sea. There was a moment when both of us thought that we might just skip the rest of the itinerary and spend rest of the day just absorbing the views from the balcony.

Cruise Balcony
we were in love with our balcony

3:00 PM

Our cruise docked and we were ready for our first activity of the day (2nd as per Soh who counted lunch). We boarded a jetty to go to Vung Vieng fishing village. We were given a Kayak to explore the area. It took us a while to synchronize our rowing; Iti’s fear of water and Sohil’s over-eagerness were not really a good combination to start with, but we did settle after a few ground principles and started enjoying it.

Vung vieng is a full-fledged village that floats on the sea! We kayaked near the colour coordinated fishermen houses, then turned a corner to come to the children’s school and further ahead reached a large community hall. All the structures in the village were on stilted wooden beams and made in a way to blend with the surroundings, matching with the perfect calm. We spent a little less than an hour kayaking in this peaceful location next to the gorgeous grottoes and caves. At the village, we also saw a demo of how pearls are extracted from oysters, though weren’t given souvenirs to carry off to the disappointment of Sohil.

4:30 pm

We were back in our cabin. As we kept sailing deeper into the sea – we realized that Bai Tu Long Bay is huge! The water became clearer, the surrounding became quieter & we lost count of all the hundreds of limestone islets & rocks that we saw on our way! We utilised this time (on Iti’s insistence) to click a lot of photos (a lot), (on Sohil’s insistence) to chill out on the cruise deck for sunset and to also watch a demo class by the chef on – how to make a Vietnamese spring roll.

7:30 pm

And did we mention, we were there on Christmas Eve – so this was time for our Christmas party on board!

It was a super fun evening planned meticulously planned by the crew. There were gifts from Santa Claus which included free chocolate (Yey! for Iti) and wine (Yey! for So). Then came a round of games for the guests, followed by a few singing performances from guests and crew alike. We learnt and sang the Vietnamese version of ‘Merry Christmas’ withal the while filled with lots of food and conversation.

Of all the games that were organized, there was a game – ‘who can drink and finish a beer bottle the fastest’ and (needless to say) the winner was Sohil.

We wound the evening down with a calm walk around the deck watching the other anchored cruises around our own, the only sources of light around.

Day 2

6:30 AM

We woke up just as the cruise started sailing again. There was a Tai Chi class on the open deck which, even with one person’s reluctance, we ended up attending – though it was so chilly that we were packed in our sweatshirts and the movements a bit laboured.

7:30 AM

After having a quick and mini (but well deserved as Sohil would say) breakfast, we were ready in our hiking clothes and sneakers and set out to explore Thien Canh Son cave. We climbed up about 100 stairs on a small cliff to reach the entrance of the cave and once inside, could see a surprisingly vast hollow filled with limestone stalactites and stone structures.

There are limited stopping points and activities in the Halong Bay and with the increased influx of tourists and cruise ships and limited itinerary, there is always an expectancy of huge crowds. Luckily (or maybe planned by our Captain) ours was one of the first group to reach the spot and we had good enough time without much crowd to explore the reflecting hues and diminishing lights of the various segments and paths of the caves.

But by the time we were starting back, there was a huge line just to get into the caves! After enjoying some stunning views of the bay from the top of the islet, we were back to the warmth of our cabin.

10:00 AM

Brunch came early, thankfully, with more variety for Sohil and as promised a fried rice combo for Iti.
We lazed around a bit more and spent some more time on the deck and it was soon check-out time. Within the next hour, we were packed, landed back on land and were off to Hanoi dozing in the comfort of the coach.

3:00 PM

We were back in Hanoi by afternoon, and it seemed like crazy madness compared to the serene beauty and calm of the Halong Bay; scooters everywhere honking, people everywhere in hurry and it felt for a moment that we were in Chandni Chowk in Delhi. But Hanoi has a very different charm owing to the language of conversations, the smell of the food and the façade which was a mix of rustic and neon.

Ha Long was our perfect mini-cruise vacay. A first-time cruise experience in such a breath-taking landscape.

In summary, the priority list of decisions for cruising in Ha Long / Bai Tu Long Bay comes down to the following –

  1. The cruise company (and the ship) – too large and it might feel like crowded
  2. The mix of inclusive activities
  3. The duration which is worthwhile

We were delighted with our decisions and lost ourselves in the calm sea and the bay of wonders loving every minute of it.

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